With a caveat – views have
not necessarily been generalised for this article.
As news of the Connecticut
town school shootings filtered in, there was shock around the world. As utter disbelief
settled into sorrow, we realised that we need to rethink a lot about life as it
used to be and why it isn’t so now. We need the silence of our minds, within,
to contemplate. My heart goes out to the dead, the little, beautiful souls that
had just started out on their journeys on this earth (someone brilliantly described
this time as a balance between reality and magic), and to those who were trying
to protect them, yet perished.
Amid this, I cannot but
discern some odd issues that need to be addressed. I list them, in no
particular order, and then proceed to discuss the first two in this article. I reserve
the next article for the last two items
- Gun laws in the US.
- Minds, young and old, snapping, the precipitates of trauma that wasnt there when children were expected to be rebuked, at home, sometimes at school.
- The senseless media.
- The world at large, and its schools.
Let us start with item 1.
I live in India, a country that has had booming
growth, till the other day, a country where poverty is endemic, to be modest, a
country where there are over 60 billionaires, a country where literacy is pathetic,
a country where the spread of primary education can, at best, be termed to be limited
at its primary level. It is also a country where terrorism has deep roots, from
without and from within (the Maoist guerrillas), and a country where corruption
is as widespread as poverty and a country where criminals have a free run on
society in general.
Yet, no mindless mass shootings, no
horrible school shootings.
Could it be because we don’t have access to
guns?
Indian gun laws are strict, if you wish to remain a law abiding citizen,
and getting a licence for one is difficult, unless you have top level
connections. Then, when you get a licence, it would probably be for a pistol,
meant for small-time self defence. And you surely cannot travel with it, or
have it uncovered at any public place (like some US states).
Mahatma Gandhi once said that if we started
taking each others’ eyes out in revenge, all the world will soon be blind. The point
being, there is sense in self defence, but there is probably more sense in overall
unarmed existence.
The gun laws in the US, dating back to its ‘wild’ days, have
run their course.
It is time to unarm the peasantry (as Kings would, after
having used them as forced conscripts in a war), and provide an overall sympathetic
atmosphere.
Let us face it – whatever the shooter’s
intentions, he could not have shot those kids if he did not have a gun to do
the shooting in the first place. One, no-so-bright suggestion was to post armed
guards at every school. The question of ‘who pays them?’ apart, you are
actually calling for more guns.
I realise that unarming the peasantry is
easier said than done. Guns in the US is a right, an issue of pride, and since disharmony
has yet to be caused on a major scale by gun owners, it is difficult to realise
how incremental easing out of firearms would actually make the US even safer.
I guess citizens of America would point towards
India and say that it is because of our strict gun laws that the terrorists
have an easy run, and it is because of our strict gun laws that criminalisation
has entered politics and general life. I would point to Afghanistan and the
north western districts of Pakistan for that matter, where possession of
firearms is probably thicker than in the US, and assault rifles and AK 47 and
56s are on open sale in some areas. That has not stopped the terrorist killings
in those areas. That has not stopped criminalisation of political life.
Ease the guns out of common hands, even if
it takes time.
Coming to point No. 2, this is an issue I
have always debated. There was an old saying, one what would be controversial
today: Spare the rod and spoil the child.
I am not advocating corporal punishment. But
a stiff reprimand and a strong rebuke is what a child needs when he/she does wrong,
and is what a child expects. In its absence, the young mind gets used to expecting
sweet nothings for sour deeds.
How many of us, when we were children, grew up
with trauma of a school caning? We joke about it today among peers. We refuse
to speak ill about our teachers, about our parents, in public.
Reverence is not a thing that comes
automatically. It has to be earned.
Autistic children are especially at risk of
providing slant to experiences in life. Disciplined upbringing did not harm to the
millions who grew up to so little, were happy with so little, were treated no more
specially than the neighbour’s child by the parents.
There is sense
in realising the damage excessive care can do to one’s intellectual
development. One has to let the mind reach its own potential, and for that it
has to itself crack the egg-shell to come out into the open. Allow it that much
struggle, provide it a path that it needs to follow, rebuke if necessary. The early
guidelines are important. Its not roses all the way in life, even in American
lives, I believe.
Hope to file the last two points tomorrow.
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